tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4587449373613572588.post4552892976401529409..comments2024-02-23T03:12:50.688-08:00Comments on Brandon and Shelby: SchedulesShelby Osmondhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10892564512928036092noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4587449373613572588.post-64309947958868728592013-02-23T07:50:18.323-08:002013-02-23T07:50:18.323-08:00I agree you must do what works for you. All the bo...I agree you must do what works for you. All the books in the world can't tell you how to be a mum well said ShelbyCheriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03338993586557738330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4587449373613572588.post-72949817770314701672013-02-22T18:21:14.027-08:002013-02-22T18:21:14.027-08:00You are an amazing Mom and I love seeing you with ...You are an amazing Mom and I love seeing you with your kids :). Books are nice, but only for suggestions. You have great examples in your life with your Mom and Deb too. Each child is so different and no one knows them better than Mom. Keep that positive, sweet personality that you have and your kids will follow your example. You and Brandon have so much fun together and that makes for happy kids :). Miss you guys so much and love ya lots! TTina Salmonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06831324522894150144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4587449373613572588.post-82601119516014527292013-02-22T08:43:04.277-08:002013-02-22T08:43:04.277-08:00I can remember being in the hospital after giving ...I can remember being in the hospital after giving birth to our first child. The hubs and I both wanted children so badly, an had tried for so long to have a baby, you would have thought I'd feel overjoyed. Instead, I was completely panicked. This beautiful boy had finally come into our lives, creating the beginning of our family, and all I was consumed with were questions like, "How will I possibly know what to do for this baby?", "What do I REALLY know about taking care of a newborn?", and "Am I really ready to be a mom?"<br /><br />I was fraught with fear, worry, and guilt for even having these thoughts in the first place....until the hospital's pediatrician met with us to give our little guy a full once-over, and talk with him about any concerns we had. It was then I confessed to him my fears and worries about being a less-than-perfect mom to my little one.<br /><br />His response was simple, but profound: "Your feelings are perfectly normal, and perfectly valid. Being a parent is a scary prospect, and babies don't come with instruction manuals. That's because each child is different, and each parent is different. Just know that there is no 'right or wrong'. You will make mistakes, and you will learn from them. Most of all, by the time you take this child into your pediatrician's office, you will know more about this baby...his personality, his likes, his dislikes, his needs....than any doctor or any book could possibly tell you."<br /><br />Of course, I was paraphrasing, but that was the general concept of his advice. And let me tell you...it did my heart a world of good, dissolved all my fears, and gave me the courage and strength to take our child home and do my best. Which is all any child ever expects or wants from their parents in the first place.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4587449373613572588.post-62656665308559753912013-02-22T08:42:18.943-08:002013-02-22T08:42:18.943-08:00I can remember being in the hospital after giving ...I can remember being in the hospital after giving birth to our first child. The hubs and I both wanted children so badly, an had tried for so long to have a baby, you would have thought I'd feel overjoyed. Instead, I was completely panicked. This beautiful boy had finally come into our lives, creating the beginning of our family, and all I was consumed with were questions like, "How will I possibly know what to do for this baby?", "What do I REALLY know about taking care of a newborn?", and "Am I really ready to be a mom?"<br /><br />I was fraught with fear, worry, and guilt for even having these thoughts in the first place....until the hospital's pediatrician met with us to give our little guy a full once-over, and talk with him about any concerns we had. It was then I confessed to him my fears and worries about being a less-than-perfect mom to my little one.<br /><br />His response was simple, but profound: "Your feelings are perfectly normal, and perfectly valid. Being a parent is a scary prospect, and babies don't come with instruction manuals. That's because each child is different, and each parent is different. Just know that there is no 'right or wrong'. You will make mistakes, and you will learn from them. Most of all, by the time you take this child into your pediatrician's office, you will know more about this baby...his personality, his likes, his dislikes, his needs....than any doctor or any book could possibly tell you."<br /><br />Of course, I was paraphrasing, but that was the general concept of his advice. And let me tell you...it did my heart a world of good, dissolved all my fears, and gave me the courage and strength to take our child home and do my best. Which is all any child ever expects or wants from their parents in the first place.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4587449373613572588.post-9253950441784048442013-02-22T05:36:11.263-08:002013-02-22T05:36:11.263-08:00I was told the same thing. A schedule never worked...I was told the same thing. A schedule never worked with my first born. He wanted to do what he wanted to do but my second child took to a schedule very easy. Yup, every child is different. Hannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14213091938907092598noreply@blogger.com